The Wedding Gift Debacle: A Call to Action
Celebrating the Brave Bride and Groom
Paying for your own wedding can be a daunting task, and one brave couple recently took on this endeavor, hosting a 270-guest wedding on their own dime. Kudos to them for pulling it off! As someone who’s been in their shoes, I can attest to the blood, sweat, and tears that go into planning a successful wedding.
Shaming the Guests
However, the real issue at hand is the shocking lack of generosity from their guests. A staggering average of $11 per person as a gift is, quite frankly, an insult. It’s essential to remember that the rule of thumb is to cover your plate, meaning if the wedding costs $200 per head, a gift of at least $400 is expected. Of course, not everyone can afford this, but a healthy mix of “cover your plate” and “friendships matter more than money” should be the guiding principle.
Introducing the 50/50 Solution
In an effort to shake things up and create a more exciting experience for wedding guests, I propose introducing 50/50 drawings at weddings. Imagine the buzz and excitement when someone wins! It’s a simple yet effective way to make your wedding stand out from the rest.
The Rules of the Game
To ensure the 50/50 drawing remains tasteful and respectful, I suggest the following guidelines:
- Discretion is key: A small, unobtrusive table with a trusted individual selling tickets will do the trick.
- No take-backs: The winner takes the prize, no exceptions.
- Charitable giving: Decide where the other 50% goes, such as towards the honeymoon or a worthy charity.
A New Era of Wedding Fun
I may be crazy, but I believe this innovative approach can revolutionize the way we think about wedding gifts. With the right execution, it can be a win-win for everyone involved. So, let’s give it a try and make weddings more exciting and memorable for all!
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